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The Story Behind Toby Keith’s “Cryin’ For Me (Wayman’s Song)”
Toby Keith’s emotional ballad, “Cryin’ For Me (Wayman’s Song),” isn’t your typical country heartbreak song. Released in 2019 on his album “The Show Dog Years,” the song grapples with grief and loss, specifically the passing of a close friend named Wayman.
Details about Wayman are scarce, but the lyrics paint a picture of a strong bond and a deep impact Wayman had on Keith’s life. The song opens with the raw pain of loss, describing the struggle to accept the news and the initial numbness that can accompany grief.
Lines like “Got the news on Friday morning/ But a tear I couldn’t find/ Showed me how I’m supposed to live/ And now you showed me how to die” highlight the transformative experience of Wayman’s passing. It forced Keith to confront his own mortality and re-evaluate what truly matters in life.
The instrumental side of the track features recognizable names in the music industry. Bassist Marcus Miller, known for his work with Miles Davis and Luther Vandross, lays down a soulful foundation. Saxophonist Dave Koz adds his signature smooth jazz touch, and backing vocalist Arthur Thompson complements Keith’s gruff vocals.
“Cryin’ For Me (Wayman’s Song)” is more than just a tribute to a friend. It’s a powerful exploration of grief, acceptance, and the enduring impact those we love can have on us. As Keith sings, “So play it sweet in heaven/ Cause that’s right where you want to be/ I’m not cryin’ cause I feel so sorry for you/ I’m cryin’ for me,” the song offers a poignant reminder to cherish the moments we have with loved ones.