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Blake Shelton Reportedly Seeking Marital Advice from Keith Urban Amidst Gwen Stefani Marriage Rumors
LOS ANGELES — Country music superstar Blake Shelton has reportedly been turning to an unlikely friend for advice on his marriage to pop icon Gwen Stefani: fellow country artist Keith Urban. The news comes amidst swirling rumors about the couple’s relationship, which sources say has faced some recent challenges.
While fans eagerly await news of Shelton’s return to The Voice — where he was a coach for 23 seasons — the singer has been focusing on a new project. He is the co-creator of a CBS reality show called The Road, which provides a platform for aspiring musicians to open for established country artists. The inaugural season features Keith Urban, a collaboration that has reportedly blossomed into a close friendship.
Sources claim this friendship has become so strong that Shelton, a famously private man, has sought Urban’s counsel. Urban has been married to actress Nicole Kidman for 19 years, and Shelton is said to admire their long-standing union.
“Blake and Gwen have had some difficult times together, but divorce is not an option,” an insider told Radar Online. “He can tell Keith feels the same way, and he will stop at nothing to ensure they stay together.”
A Tale of Two Worlds
Shelton and Stefani’s relationship has long been celebrated as a modern fairy tale. They fell in love on the set of The Voice while both were navigating difficult divorces. Their romance, which culminated in a 2021 wedding at Shelton’s ranch in Oklahoma, seemed to be a testament to the power of opposites attracting.
However, those differences—a core part of their initial appeal—are now reportedly a source of friction.
“Blake enjoys living a simple life,” the source explained. “He is most content when he is at home working the farm or is sitting in a cabin penning music.”
In contrast, Stefani is described as a “true California girl” who thrives on the fast-paced energy of her music career, fashion endeavors, and the Los Angeles lifestyle.
“Gwen still requires the glitz, the connections, and the creative buzz,” the insider added. “They’re attempting to strike a balance, but it’s not always simple.”
Seeking Counsel from a Close Circle
According to sources, Shelton has been discreetly leaning on a trusted group of friends and mentors, including Urban, fellow artists Luke Bryan and Reba McEntire, and even their wedding officiant, Carson Daly.
Daly, who has been married for nearly two decades, reportedly advised Shelton to “not let minor grievances grow,” reminding him that handling disagreements together is more important than avoiding them.
Meanwhile, Reba McEntire has been a source of wisdom, urging Shelton to “never forget why he fell in love with Gwen in the first place.” She reminded him to focus on the music, laughter, and companionship that brought them together.
The challenges of blending their families also add to the pressure. Stefani has three sons from her previous marriage to Gavin Rossdale, and while Shelton has embraced his role as a stepfather, friends say he is sometimes unsure of his place within the family dynamic.
Despite the rumors, friends of the couple insist that love is not the issue. Blake and Gwen are simply working through the everyday complexities of two very different lives intersecting. As one source put it, Shelton isn’t looking for “a way out,” but rather “a route through” the challenges.
“Gwen understands what it’s like to lose love. She is determined to keep this,” a source concluded.
Both Blake and Gwen are reportedly committed to making their marriage work, scheduling time away from the spotlight to reconnect and find clarity.