Introduction
Released in 1972 as the second single from Lobo’s album “Of a Simple Man,” “I’d Love You To Want Me” quickly soared to become his biggest hit, peaking at #2 on the Billboard Hot 100 and holding the top spot on the Easy Listening chart for a week. But what made this seemingly straightforward love song resonate so deeply with audiences? Let’s delve into its history and unravel its enduring charm.
The song, penned by Lobo himself under his real name Roland Kent LaVoie, paints a picture of unspoken desires and hidden feelings. The narrator is smitten by a woman who suppresses her emotions, perhaps bound by social expectations. He sees the longing in her eyes, the unspoken “want” that mirrors his own. The lyrics, though simple, capture the universal yearning for connection and the vulnerability of expressing true emotions.
“I’d Love You To Want Me” was released at a time when social norms were undergoing significant shifts. The song’s message of open communication and emotional honesty resonated with a generation seeking authenticity in relationships. LaVoie’s soulful vocals and the song’s catchy melody further amplified its impact, making it a staple of radio airwaves and jukeboxes.
Beyond its initial success, “I’d Love You To Want Me” transcended generations. Its timeless themes of love, yearning, and vulnerability continue to touch hearts. The song has been covered by numerous artists, from Bonnie Tyler to Joan Jett, each adding their own unique flavor while preserving its core message.
Whether you first heard it in the 70s or recently discovered its charm, “I’d Love You To Want Me” remains a love song for the ages. Its simple yet powerful lyrics, combined with Lobo’s emotive delivery, create a timeless melody that continues to resonate with listeners across generations. So, put on the song, tap your foot, and let yourself be swept away by the yearning and honesty that make “I’d Love You To Want Me” a classic.